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24è dimanche de l’année A – 2020

11 septembre 2020
Nicole Gregoire
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Catégories: Trésor ancien et nouveau
Mots-clés: don, exigence, Mt 18:21-35, pardonner, Si.27:30 – 28:7, solution

Si on me demande ce que je trouve le plus difficile pour vivre comme le Christ, je n’ai aucune hésitation à répondre : PARDONNER.
Et pardonner selon son critère à LUI : ‘du fond du cœur!’
C’est ce que le texte de l’évangile de ce dimanche nous rappelle très clairement (Mt.18:21-35).

Cette exigence pour plaire à Dieu ne date pourtant pas du temps de Jésus –
elle remonte loin dans l’histoire du peuple de Dieu.

La 1ère lecture d’aujourd’hui (Si.27:30 – 28:7) le démontre en ces termes :

 

« Pardonne à ton prochain le tort qu’il t’a fait;
alors, à ta prière, tes péchés seront remis.
Si un homme nourrit de la colère contre un autre homme,
comment peut-il demander à Dieu la guérison ?
S’il n’a pas de pitié pour un homme, son semblable,
comment peut-il supplier pour ses péchés à lui ? 

C’est clair, précis et exigeant au-delà de ce qu’on se sent capable de donner.
Par-donner – c’est justement donner par-dessus le don qu’on est prêt à offrir.

L’apôtre Pierre s’estimait sans doute généreux en étant prêt à pardonner sept fois,
c’est beaucoup, beaucoup plus que bien des gens consentiraient à faire…
Et voilà que Jésus répond avec un chiffre fabuleux : 70 fois 7 fois –
et il n’est pas question ici de mathématique!
Ce nombre traduit le mot… toujours!

Qui peut le faire?
Certaines personnes au cœur généreux et de nature héroïque? Sans doute.
Mais pardonner est une exigence qui s’adresse à chacun/e de nous…

Y a t-il une solution? J’en ai trouvé une que j’emploie au besoin…
Demander à Dieu de transmettre à travers nous son pardon à lui !

 

Note: Une autre réflexion est disponible sur un thème différent en anglais  à: https://image-i-nations.com/24th-sunday-of-year-a-2020/

 

Source: Images: hope1032.com.au  C’est quoi le bonheur pour vous

24th Sunday of Year A – 2020

11 septembre 2020
Nicole Gregoire
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Catégories: Anglophones et anglophiles
Mots-clés: burden, forgive, libération, Mt 18:21-35, stone

Looking for pictures on the theme of forgiveness, I came across this illustration:

A small stone really… and it launched my reflection about this demand – for it is one – of the gospel text of this Sunday (Mt.18:21-35).

To forgive: a task that feels as a big stone, at times.
In fact, sometimes it appears to be a huge rock which we are unable to move,
let alone to dislodge from inside us!
To remove this from our hearts – because it usually hides deep in there – seems absolutely impossible.

Yet, if we think about it, forgiving is beneficial to ourselves perhaps even before than to the one we give the forgiveness.
We may not see it this way at first, but it can give such a feeling of liberation.
It can provide us with a tremendous sense of being rid of a burden that was bending us under its weight.

Being hurt can be really painful, especially if the hurt is caused willingly by someone we trusted.
But wanting to hurt back, trying to ‘get even’, as people say, keeping within oneself a burning desire to take revenge –
this is hurting oneself as well!

One day, I saw a poster with the caption : ’Let go, let God!’
This may be a good attitude in this respect:
Letting go of the hurt and the pain it brought,
Letting God give us HIS forgiveness to pass on to the one who hurt us…

Note: Another reflection on a similar theme in French can be found at: https://image-i-nations.com/24e-dimanche-de-lannee-a-2020/

 

Source: Image: tonyagnesi.com   Fine Art America

 

Plus difficile que tout…

6 mars 2018
Nicole Gregoire
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Catégories: On m'a parlé de...
Mots-clés: Apôtre Pierre, fruits de l'Esprit, Jesus, Joie, Mt 18:21-35, paix intérieure, pardon du coeur, prière, reconciliation, rencontrer la personne qui nous a blessés, se calmer

Plusieurs affirment que vivre en chrétien n’est pas facile.
C’est la vérité mais il y a des… degrés de difficulté, peut-on dire.
Ce que l’évangile d’aujourd’hui nous demande
(mardi de la 3è semaine du Carême, Mt.18:21-35)
est, selon moi, ce qui est vraiment le plus difficile.
Manon Bellis nous partage sa réflexion sur ce sujet.

24th Sunday of the Year A

14 septembre 2017
Nicole Gregoire
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Catégories: Anglophones et anglophiles
Mots-clés: evil, fake news, forgiveness, ignorance, Jesus parable, Lc.23:34, love, Mt 18:21-35, promotion, rumours, Si.27:30 – 28:7, wicked

The parable of Jesus in the gospel of this Sunday (24th Sunday of Year A – Mt 18:21-35) is well-known but, I must admit, I never get used to its… demanding message!
Simply put, the last verse says that if we do not forgive others, God will not forgive us either.
This makes me more than a little… uncomfortable!

I wonder if there is any one among us who does not find it hard, very hard at times, to forgive someone who has hurt us.

To forgive:

  • Someone who has spread false rumours against us – ‘fake news’ is a current practice!
  • Someone who has deprived us of a promotion which was truly deserved.
  • Someone who has ‘stolen’ the love that was rightly ours from a spouse of many years…

And the list could go on, every example more painful than the previous one.
The deed may have been wicked, the outcome devastating, and the wound may seem incurable.

Every time I hear, or read, this gospel text, I feel inclined to tell the Lord: “You don’t really mean this, Lord!…”
But I know well that he does…

This time, having read the gospel, I went to the text of the 1st reading (Si.27:30 – 28:7)
and… the last verse caught my attention (in the French text):

“Ne garde pas de rancune envers le prochain…
et sois indulgent pour qui ne sait pas. »

The English translation of the Jerusalem Bible simply says:
“Do not bear your neighbour ill-will…
and overlook the offence.” (Si.28:7-8)  

(The American Bible translation has: “Overlook a mistake”).
Neither of them gave the meaning I had found in the French words…
I kept searching and…

In the King James version I found this interesting translation:
“Bear no malice to thy neighbour… and wink at ignorance.”

These words immediately brought back to my mind the words Jesus spoke on the cross:
“Forgive them, Father, they do not know what they are doing” (Lc.23:34).

So often, it is so…
People do not realize, they can be foolish, but not really evil.
If they truly saw and understood, if they were aware of what their words and actions do to others, then… perhaps they would not do what they do…

When I feel like telling the Lord: “You don’t really mean this, Lord!…”, it seems to me that I hear:
“Of course, not… not on your own… but my Spirit is with you to enable you to do it…”
Personally, this is the only way I can stop protesting and … start pardoning – poorly, awkwardly perhaps, but sincerely.

Source: Image: LDS